You may think that your spouse is not loving you as much as before. But your spouse may be thinking that he is loving you as much. So what is the problem?
The problem here is that your spouse do not understand what is your expectation of love.
Different people has difference expectation. To simplify it, we can categories into SEE, HEAR or TOUCH.
Some people likes to SEE. Example, seeing you bringing her to tour, seeing the gifts/flowers you buy for her. They need to SEE the love you give.
Some people like to hear. Example, saying “I love you”, talking to her a lot.
Some people like to touch. Example, a daily hug or a simple kiss.
Without knowing your partner expectation, it like a silent bomb. Know your spouse expectation and shower your love accordingly. Know your expectation, let him/her know as well.
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